In my last post, I talked about Americans’ interactions with
society and the negative energy and ideas that are a result of this. The motive for Americans’ interaction with
society comes from a need to associate their ideas and beliefs with others so
that they feel accepted, supported, and “normal.” Society portrays a standard of “normal,”
however most Americans don’t fit into this mold and therefore do not feel
accepted or supported by others. Because of this, many Americans looked to
the people directly surrounding them for examples of living and also for the
same values of acceptance, support, and normalcy. This sense of community is much more
welcoming than the ideals of society, and plenty of Americans use this
environment to help them sustain success.
In the book, Their Eyes
Were Watching God, Zora Neale Hurston shows the concept of community
through the relationship between two women, Pheoby and Janie. Hurston starts the scene with Pheoby having
just arrived at Janie’s house after leaving the clique of women who represent
society. They discuss the habits of the
clique, and Pheoby says, “Most of dese zigaboos is so het up over yo’ business
till the liable to hurry theyself to Judgement to find out about you if they
don’t soon know.” Pheoby knows that
these women will do anything they can to get their hands on other people’s
business, and she also knows that they will twist it around and make it sound
bad. Because Pheoby knows how the clique
works, she wants to protect her friend, Janie, from getting hurt by them. She knows Janie has had a rough life and
sometimes people need to talk about their experiences. To keep Janie from telling the clique her
entire life story, Pheoby offers to talk to Janie when she says, “It’s hard for
me to understand what you mean, de way you tell it. And then again Ah’m hard of understandin’
sometimes.” Pheoby’s words reveal that
she and Janie have had conversations like these before. Her willingness to hear Janie’s story again,
as well as her desire to understand her better this time show that their
relationship is always evolving and she hopes to strengthen it and support
Janie more every day. The pair’s
friendship parallels many relationships that are prevalent in communities in
America. Americans look to members of
their community for honest advice on business, raising a family, religion,
politics, and finance- all components to life in America. Those relationships that are fostered in
communities are like Janie’s and Pheoby’s.
Americans are always trying to help each other succeed and live happy
lives. Society offers criticism that
only weakens people’s self-esteem, but people in communities are there to give
constructive criticism so that all Americans can experience the benefits and
support found in “sibling” relationships.
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